The Ex Talk

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The Ex Talk is a contemporary romance about a woman on the brink of thirty, trying to figure out how to fulfil her career aspirations without killing one of her unfairly hot coworkers or being way too dishonest. It’s an amazing rivals-to-lovers romance, with some serious depth and intense emotional range. I initially picked it up because I love fake-dating tropes and podcasts, and I was not disappointed.

Shay Goldstein lives and breathes public radio – she loves connecting with people and telling their stories. It’s also a big part of the bond she had with her father, who died when she was in her late teens. An internship at her local public radio station, PPR, helped pull Shay out of her grief, and find a purpose – and ten years later, Shay is producing her own show, content with her work… until Dominic Yun gets hired. He’s fresh out of graduate school, flush with success and full of the kind of hot air only a first-class education can provide. Dominic is the new station darling, particularly favored by their boss, Kent, and it makes Shay absolutely nuts. After ten years of hard work and earning her way, she’s frustrated as she feels Dominic undermining her at every turn. Of course, it’s twice as irritating that he’s incredibly tall and unfairly handsome. It only makes matters worse when Dominic gets to talk on air almost immediately, something Shay has been dreaming about since playacting with her father. This irritation is spurred by the antagonism between them, which has an undercurrent of frustrated attraction.

Shay manages to avoid Dominic for the most part, until a station-wide brainstorming meeting produces the premise of a new show: the Ex Talk, two exes talking about their relationship, why it went wrong, and how they stayed friends. Kent taps Shay and Dominic to host the show together, given their mutual animosity, and a rapport he’s noticed. There are only three problems: 1) Shay and Dominic never dated, 2) they detest each other, and 3) journalistic integrity frowns upon lying. Shay’s heart leaps at the idea of hosting her own show, but Dominic puts his foot down about deceiving the public. But then Kent drops a bombshell – PPR is in a tailspin, and there are layoffs coming. If they don’t do the Ex Talk, they’ll both be cleaning out their desks.

Shay and Dominic set aside their rivalry to come up with a decent relationship timeline and to plan how to lie to everyone they know. Only four people are in on the truth: Kent, Dominic, Shay and Shay’s best friend Ammena, to whom she cannot lie. All Dominic and Shay have to do to keep their jobs, and hopefully become a hit, is lie to the world about having dated – and try to keep their hands off of each other. Unfortunately, the more time they spend together, the more they realize they might actually be a pretty good match. Coupled with this, Shay is struggling with her mother moving on romantically, and Ameena possibly relocating for her dream job. Despite having a house and a job, Shay feels like a kid play-acting at adulthood, and as though the only important people in her life are moving on while she remains stationary.

I loved this book.  I’m not cavalier with A grades, but this one really got me. Shay is an amazing protagonist; she’s really relatable. She is at a time in her life when things are really changing but she feels incapable of moving forward. Shay deals with the things we all deal with – grief, work angst, indecision, and the fear that she’s completely failing as an adult. I also love some good Jewish representation; it’s great to see Jewish women being portrayed as smart, kind, and desirable. Shay has a lot of depth to her, and she’s not clueless, either. I usually find it really frustrating when a heroine keeps missing signs that someone is into her, but Shay is very observant – it’s just that everyone around her is bad at communicating!

Dominic is also amazing; he’s multi-faceted and a breath of fresh air as a leading man. He’s younger than Shay, which is a nice change, and while he’s accomplished, she’s more established. Shay feels threatened by Dominic, and feels as though he’s intentionally getting in her way at PPR. The two of them unraveling their feelings takes time, but is well worth the wait. Watching Dominic slowly open up and getting to know him as the story unfolds is a true pleasure. He’s also seriously hot, and they have amazing chemistry, which is always a plus. Their dialogue in particular is very strong, and really makes the story work.

Some other things I loved about the book were the workplace conflicts, which will feel very real for anyone who has co-workers they don’t get along with! It really makes you feel for Shay. Her boss also isn’t a total cartoon villain, just kind of a standard crappy guy. The conflict Shay feels in her personal life, with her mother and best friend, really adds to the narrative and helps the reader understand and sympathize with her. The Ex Talk is a really great, nuanced book that doesn’t feel cluttered or overstuffed – it’s exactly right. If you’re a fan of radio or podcasts, it will be an extra fun read to pick out all of the inside jokes.

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Reviewed by Rachel Finston

Grade: A

Sensuality: Warm

Review Date: 26/01/21

Publication Date: 01/2021

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  1. excellent book: interesting, funny dialogs, deep understanding of each character, interesting secondary characters, and also sexy.

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nblibgirl
nblibgirl
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08/07/2021 9:16 pm

As a huge fan of public radio and the “A” grade, I was really looking forward to this book. It has a lot going for it. But I’m disappointed that in 2021, we aren’t seeing MCs who are better at recognizing (if not actually pushing back on misogyny) in the workplace. Kudos to Dominic for standing up for his female coworkers – but we need fictional women to be smarter about what’s really happening (only women are asked to take meeting notes?) and how to deal with it.

Also, kudos to the author for making a big point of how unethical it would be for public figures to lie to their audience – what a concept! But did she really have to go there? Couldn’t the fact that Dominic and Shay had some legitimate tension between the two of them have been sufficient for the premise of the show to work?

Both of these issues got in the way of an otherwise interesting romance for me . . . ;-(

Caroline Russomanno
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Reply to  nblibgirl
10/21/2021 7:48 pm

I agree with this comment, especially the ethical issue of the characters lying. I loved the characters. The chemistry was great. The prose is very good. But once I realized that I’d be pretty contemptuous of people who would do this in real life, I became unsatisfied. There were so many options! Come clean with “We were told we had to do this for be fired.” Change the plan – use the few weeks they have to legitimately try to go on a couple of dates, and make the story “We didn’t click… what is the click and why does it happen or not?” The whole “we are telling a story, even if it’s not a true story that we are saying is a true story” gymnastics they indulged in were so irritating.

But I firmly believe this author has DIK capabilities, just not this plot.

Manjari
Manjari
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01/27/2021 7:54 pm

I commented on this last night but my comment has disappeared! What I said was that i was excited to see this good review. I really liked Ms. Solomon’s YA book Today Tonight Tomorrow from last year. My library purchased the e-book of The Ex Talk and I just checked it out so I’m looking forward to a good read!

Rachel Finston
Rachel Finston
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Reply to  Manjari
01/29/2021 10:30 pm

I really loved it! I think if the premise appeals to you you’ll enjoy it too.

Manjari
Manjari
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Reply to  Rachel Finston
01/31/2021 11:48 pm

I just finished it today and it was a wonderful read! That ending – so romantic!

Lisa Fernandes
Lisa Fernandes
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01/27/2021 11:37 am

Interesting! This has received mixed reviews in other places due to the way the pacing of the book plays out. I’ll give it a try on the strength of this review, good work Rachel!

Tina
Tina
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Reply to  Lisa Fernandes
01/27/2021 8:44 pm

I read it today and think you’re going to enjoy it! For my own part I didn’t really understand where those reviews were coming from — I was led to expect something far more dragged-out and upsetting than the pretty standard third-act drama that was actually on the page. Not saying that it wasn’t a rough, impactful situation; just that I have a hard time believing those of us who have read a lot of enemies-to-lovers romcoms *wouldn’t* be accustomed to the way this sort of arc generally plays out.

Wendy
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Reply to  Tina
01/27/2021 11:56 pm

I agree with you! I got the book but then was nervous when I read the meh reviews. But this book really hit the spot for me. It wasn’t even the cute public radio setting. It was the ways both characters were kind of messed up by past traumas and yet found a way to be better together. I liked it a lot.

Rachel Finston
Rachel Finston
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Reply to  Lisa Fernandes
01/29/2021 10:31 pm

Thanks! Admittedly, it does check a lot of boxes for me sentimentality wise, but I really loved it. It was one of the books I was most excited for in 2021!