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The Summer Storm of Aught Nine

lightningOnce again this week, just as it has multiple times every year since the Internets began, Romancelandia has erupted into flames.

Out of the smoke and fire has emerged more than once from various quarters an old saw I truly hoped had been retired forever:  If you don’t have anything nice to say about romance, don’t say anything at all.

Do we really need to have this discussion again?

At AAR, we write reviews for readers.  We don’t write critiques to help authors, something that completely and totally falls under the category of Not Our Job.

As we’ve said over and over (and over and over) again, we’re here to help readers make the best choices with their increasingly hard-earned dollars.

We try not to write personally insulting reviews – though we are not perfect and a line has probably been crossed a few times.  But, for the most part, it’s all about the book.

Which authors are asking readers to buy. With their money.

Do we support the romance genre?  You bet we do.  We help get readers excited about books and new authors and we do what we can to get the word out about books we love. We’re also out to entertain our readers and make AAR lively, fun, and a great place for discussion.

But we are not cheerleaders.  When we see something we don’t like, we call it.  Usually loudly and clearly.  Because the way we see it, pointing out what doesn’t work does just as much to support the genre as celebrating the good.

Because we love it romance.  We truly do.  Each and every one of us.

But there’s another side to the “nice’ argument:  Authors criticizing other authors online.  Obviously, it’s a personal choice.  But if authors choose to do so it is nothing short of  delusional to believe that what you post online won’t eventually come back to bite you in the ass. Some readers will like you. Some readers will not.  And, all the high falutin’ writerly stuff aside, authors – published or not – are selling a product and people don’t buy products from people – or  companies – they don’t like.

Simple as that.

When Trent Lott went down in flames, I’ve always believed that he said what he did because he was too comfortable in the room.  Hey, he was with his peeps so surely it was all right to reminisce about the good old days of segregation.  As experienced a politico as he was, he forgot for a fatal moment that cameras were rolling and, no matter how hard he tried to spin it in the days following, all you had to do to understand exactly what he meant was to watch that tape.  Which CNN was happy to show you over and over again.

My advice to authors is not to get too comfortable in the room.  Because you never know who the hell is watching.

-Sandy AAR

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xina
xina
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09/08/2009 9:56 pm

Margaret: xina wrote………How many of us have made a mental list of..who-not-to-read/who-not-to-buy just by watching bad behavior online or the company that author keeps online……………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………I’ve struggled with this…one of my favourite authors is boderline and it’s killing me, but it’s becoming harder and harder to forget the on-line company she keeps. Promotion is one thing–shmoozing is another.

Margaret, I know this is late, and I don’t know if you will see it, but I think I figured out which author you are talking about…which is a shame, if I am correct. I know you have been a fan for many years. I gave up on her after her last book. I really liked it, but I hate who she hangs out with online and the lengths she goes to…to sell, and smooze. Love her writing, but hey…there are a lot of writers out there who don’t do this. I have to go with them. Maybe she will come to her senses one day.

xina
xina
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09/08/2009 9:56 pm

Margaret: xina wrote………How many of us have made a mental list of..who-not-to-read/who-not-to-buy just by watching bad behavior online or the company that author keeps online……………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………I’ve struggled with this…one of my favourite authors is boderline and it’s killing me, but it’s becoming harder and harder to forget the on-line company she keeps. Promotion is one thing–shmoozing is another.

Margaret, I know this is late, and I don’t know if you will see it, but I think I figured out which author you are talking about…which is a shame, if I am correct. I know you have been a fan for many years. I gave up on her after her last book. I really liked it, but I hate who she hangs out with online and the lengths she goes to…to sell, and smooze. Love her writing, but hey…there are a lot of writers out there who don’t do this. I have to go with them. Maybe she will come to her senses one day.

xina
xina
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08/31/2009 9:51 pm

Diana: . But this “author” will probably be back at it again next week.

Yes, probably…but sadly, without a brain, because it will have exploded. :) but, who needs a brain anyway?

xina
xina
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08/31/2009 9:51 pm

Diana: . But this “author” will probably be back at it again next week.

Yes, probably…but sadly, without a brain, because it will have exploded. :) but, who needs a brain anyway?

Diana
Diana
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08/31/2009 7:33 pm

xina:
well as I can tell, the authors of romfail aren’t as popular or successful. Cutting their nose to spite their face and ending up looking ridiculous doesn’t seem worth it to me when you need all the readers you can get, especially when people are cutting back on their book buying lately. Seems an odd way to further a career. **shrug**

I googled one of the “”authors”” who was most truculent in trashing Sarah’s Child. Dead horse, I know, but this “”author”” was still tweeting days later that it was so bad it made her “”brain explode.”” What came up on google was her social media pages and a link to her website. Website is under construction and there are no excerpts on her “”bookshelf.”” Good thing I guess because I’d hate for my brain to explode.

The point is that it’s the “”authors”” who are doing the mocking who look ugly and arrogant and desperate for attention. Whose critiques (what with the exploded brain and everything) are less than worthless. I agree it’s likely that Linda Howard couldn’t care less.

Yeah, dead horse. But this “”author”” will probably be back at it again next week.

Diana
Diana
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08/31/2009 7:33 pm

xina:
well as I can tell, the authors of romfail aren’t as popular or successful. Cutting their nose to spite their face and ending up looking ridiculous doesn’t seem worth it to me when you need all the readers you can get, especially when people are cutting back on their book buying lately. Seems an odd way to further a career. **shrug**

I googled one of the “”authors”” who was most truculent in trashing Sarah’s Child. Dead horse, I know, but this “”author”” was still tweeting days later that it was so bad it made her “”brain explode.”” What came up on google was her social media pages and a link to her website. Website is under construction and there are no excerpts on her “”bookshelf.”” Good thing I guess because I’d hate for my brain to explode.

The point is that it’s the “”authors”” who are doing the mocking who look ugly and arrogant and desperate for attention. Whose critiques (what with the exploded brain and everything) are less than worthless. I agree it’s likely that Linda Howard couldn’t care less.

Yeah, dead horse. But this “”author”” will probably be back at it again next week.

xina
xina
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08/31/2009 2:00 pm

JulieLeto: In the case of the plagiarist, her books are still being bought and making bestseller lists. In fact, that’s the case with TWO plagiarists. This is news that didn’t just hit our little corner of the world in Romancelandia, but the national news. And they still sell and sell well. . >

Well, my theory is that the “”plagiarist”” already had a huge following, has been writing for years and has an impressive backlist. Like her work or not, somebody does out there. A lot of somebodies, I suspect. As well as I can tell, the authors of romfail aren’t as popular or successful. Cutting their nose to spite their face and ending up looking ridiculous doesn’t seem worth it to me when you need all the readers you can get, especially when people are cutting back on their book buying lately. Seems an odd way to further a career. **shrug**

xina
xina
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08/31/2009 2:00 pm

JulieLeto: In the case of the plagiarist, her books are still being bought and making bestseller lists. In fact, that’s the case with TWO plagiarists. This is news that didn’t just hit our little corner of the world in Romancelandia, but the national news. And they still sell and sell well. . >

Well, my theory is that the “”plagiarist”” already had a huge following, has been writing for years and has an impressive backlist. Like her work or not, somebody does out there. A lot of somebodies, I suspect. As well as I can tell, the authors of romfail aren’t as popular or successful. Cutting their nose to spite their face and ending up looking ridiculous doesn’t seem worth it to me when you need all the readers you can get, especially when people are cutting back on their book buying lately. Seems an odd way to further a career. **shrug**

JulieLeto
JulieLeto
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08/30/2009 5:14 pm

In the case of the plagiarist, her books are still being bought and making bestseller lists. In fact, that’s the case with TWO plagiarists. This is news that didn’t just hit our little corner of the world in Romancelandia, but the national news. And they still sell and sell well. So how can I possibly believe that some authors (and I don’t know who specifically here because I am NOT following this romfail thingy) are going to be hurt in any way, shape or form by trashing an author on Twitter.

I’m not saying what they are doing is right. To be honest, I think it’s stupid. (My opinion…I also think Sasha Baron Cohen is stupid in any role other than King Julian from Madagascar, so take it with a grain of salt.) But I don’t think it’s going to hurt anyone, not the least of which, the author they are making fun of. And no, this isn’t an invitation to make my book their next target! However, if they do, I certainly hope no one tells me about it.

I’m really perplexed about the mockery of Sarah’s Child. I read it…years and years ago…when it was reprinted the first time. I don’t really remember it very well. But I do remember fans swooning over this book and it still shows up on favorite lists. It’s a 30+ year old book…of course it’s not going to stand up to romance today. But whatever. I’m sure Linda Howard could care less.

JulieLeto
JulieLeto
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08/30/2009 5:14 pm

In the case of the plagiarist, her books are still being bought and making bestseller lists. In fact, that’s the case with TWO plagiarists. This is news that didn’t just hit our little corner of the world in Romancelandia, but the national news. And they still sell and sell well. So how can I possibly believe that some authors (and I don’t know who specifically here because I am NOT following this romfail thingy) are going to be hurt in any way, shape or form by trashing an author on Twitter.

I’m not saying what they are doing is right. To be honest, I think it’s stupid. (My opinion…I also think Sasha Baron Cohen is stupid in any role other than King Julian from Madagascar, so take it with a grain of salt.) But I don’t think it’s going to hurt anyone, not the least of which, the author they are making fun of. And no, this isn’t an invitation to make my book their next target! However, if they do, I certainly hope no one tells me about it.

I’m really perplexed about the mockery of Sarah’s Child. I read it…years and years ago…when it was reprinted the first time. I don’t really remember it very well. But I do remember fans swooning over this book and it still shows up on favorite lists. It’s a 30+ year old book…of course it’s not going to stand up to romance today. But whatever. I’m sure Linda Howard could care less.

Diana
Diana
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08/30/2009 9:17 am

Julie, how could you quantify lost book sales? Especially for new or unpubbed authors. The author I think you’re referring to was a bestseller before she went nuclear on the inernet. She was dealing from a position of strength which you certainly can’t say about new/unpubbed authors.

As for me, one single consumer who posts on message boards, I recognized some of the authors who were all over Lisa Valdez and Sarah McCarty, but who didn’t have what it takes to join in hilarious mockery of a 1985 Linda Howard book. Why did they drop out? I had intended to purchase one author’s second book but now I won’t because the first one was really just okay and her romail comments sealed the deal.

Good point, xina, grown women who say they have professional careers proudly calling themselves mean “”girls”” is bizarre. I doubt they’d tolerate being called a “”girl”” in their workplace.

Diana
Diana
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08/30/2009 9:17 am

Julie, how could you quantify lost book sales? Especially for new or unpubbed authors. The author I think you’re referring to was a bestseller before she went nuclear on the inernet. She was dealing from a position of strength which you certainly can’t say about new/unpubbed authors.

As for me, one single consumer who posts on message boards, I recognized some of the authors who were all over Lisa Valdez and Sarah McCarty, but who didn’t have what it takes to join in hilarious mockery of a 1985 Linda Howard book. Why did they drop out? I had intended to purchase one author’s second book but now I won’t because the first one was really just okay and her romail comments sealed the deal.

Good point, xina, grown women who say they have professional careers proudly calling themselves mean “”girls”” is bizarre. I doubt they’d tolerate being called a “”girl”” in their workplace.

AAR Sandy
AAR Sandy
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08/30/2009 7:45 am

Julie, good point re sales. I’d bet the effect is more indirect. Our little romance world is small and does include editors and agents. On the unpubed front, if an editor is faced with two manuscripts of equal quality from two writers, one of whom has kept a low profile on the Internet and another with a brash love-her-or-hate-her online personality, I’d bet that more often than not the editor is going to go with the safe choice. If I were an unpubed trying to sell myself, I think it’s pretty close to career suicide to poop on the Internet. Do it on a regular basis and you’re dead. Publishers don’t want PR problems. And that makes total sense to me.

And for those screaming about Internet freedom, I’d ask them this: WHO gets to go into her workplace or the place she wants to work and wank off about people who work there? Or customers? Or uses curse words when she doesn’t know what the culture or the environment is? In our world — in our CIVILIZED world — you have to control your behavior. Nobody has the right to act like you’re 12 your entire life, thank god.

And, okay, so I’m one of those clued-in online people, but you bet I’ve got a mental list of writers I won’t read or ever read ever again. And some of them are unpubed.

AAR Sandy
AAR Sandy
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08/30/2009 7:45 am

Julie, good point re sales. I’d bet the effect is more indirect. Our little romance world is small and does include editors and agents. On the unpubed front, if an editor is faced with two manuscripts of equal quality from two writers, one of whom has kept a low profile on the Internet and another with a brash love-her-or-hate-her online personality, I’d bet that more often than not the editor is going to go with the safe choice. If I were an unpubed trying to sell myself, I think it’s pretty close to career suicide to poop on the Internet. Do it on a regular basis and you’re dead. Publishers don’t want PR problems. And that makes total sense to me.

And for those screaming about Internet freedom, I’d ask them this: WHO gets to go into her workplace or the place she wants to work and wank off about people who work there? Or customers? Or uses curse words when she doesn’t know what the culture or the environment is? In our world — in our CIVILIZED world — you have to control your behavior. Nobody has the right to act like you’re 12 your entire life, thank god.

And, okay, so I’m one of those clued-in online people, but you bet I’ve got a mental list of writers I won’t read or ever read ever again. And some of them are unpubed.

xina
xina
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08/30/2009 12:18 am

I will say that I have gone out of my way to purchase books by authors whose sense of humor, and sense of what works in romance, first came to my attention via their participation in #romfail. So far, I have not been disappointed.

Really? Well, I go out of my way to not buy the authors who participate in tearing apart other authors on romfail and on Dear Author. Let me say, that I buy…yes spend cash, on romance novels at Amazon, Barnes and Noble, Target and various other small bookstores. I see the names of the authors I recognize from these venues and I don’t consider for one moment, to read their book. You know, there is something to be said for behaving with intergrity and a bit of class online. The internet covers a large territory and if I feel this way, I have to think that there are others “”out there”” that feel the same. Can you imagine authors like Lisa Kleypas, Karen Templeton, Diana Gablaldon, Carla Kelly…to name just a few, making fun of a fellow author’s work? Class and integrity…yeah, an old-fashioned idea, but those qualities still stand pretty strong in judging a person. As for me…I post on message boards when I love an author and the book, and encourage other readers to try the book. Small potatoes, maybe, but hopefully these blogs can sell these authors books as well. Good luck with that. As for being Mean Girls…well, I’m pretty sure these are grown women, and unless you are under 15, this behavior is malicious and actually, very odd and strange and most importantly, not funny in the big picture.

xina
xina
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08/30/2009 12:18 am

I will say that I have gone out of my way to purchase books by authors whose sense of humor, and sense of what works in romance, first came to my attention via their participation in #romfail. So far, I have not been disappointed.

Really? Well, I go out of my way to not buy the authors who participate in tearing apart other authors on romfail and on Dear Author. Let me say, that I buy…yes spend cash, on romance novels at Amazon, Barnes and Noble, Target and various other small bookstores. I see the names of the authors I recognize from these venues and I don’t consider for one moment, to read their book. You know, there is something to be said for behaving with intergrity and a bit of class online. The internet covers a large territory and if I feel this way, I have to think that there are others “”out there”” that feel the same. Can you imagine authors like Lisa Kleypas, Karen Templeton, Diana Gablaldon, Carla Kelly…to name just a few, making fun of a fellow author’s work? Class and integrity…yeah, an old-fashioned idea, but those qualities still stand pretty strong in judging a person. As for me…I post on message boards when I love an author and the book, and encourage other readers to try the book. Small potatoes, maybe, but hopefully these blogs can sell these authors books as well. Good luck with that. As for being Mean Girls…well, I’m pretty sure these are grown women, and unless you are under 15, this behavior is malicious and actually, very odd and strange and most importantly, not funny in the big picture.

JulieLeto
JulieLeto
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08/29/2009 8:36 pm

I had no idea what you guys were talking about, but I want to say this one thing:

I’ve YET to see an author who has behaved badly see a drop in her book sales.

Plagiarists are still on the bookshelves at my grocery store. One well-publicized loony who threatened readers online has a new book out in stores. Everyone screams, “”That’s going to kill her career,”” and yet, it never does. Should it? I don’t know…and it doesn’t matter. Fact is, it doesn’t.

Would I participate? Nope. Because I’m nice? No one’s accused me of that before. But as an author, I’d rather spend my time improving my own craft than tearing someone else apart for theirs. It’s the height of arrogance, IMO. But whatever. I certainly don’t think it’s going to hurt anyone’s career if they act like mean girls online. Not until I see it actually happen.

JulieLeto
JulieLeto
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08/29/2009 8:36 pm

I had no idea what you guys were talking about, but I want to say this one thing:

I’ve YET to see an author who has behaved badly see a drop in her book sales.

Plagiarists are still on the bookshelves at my grocery store. One well-publicized loony who threatened readers online has a new book out in stores. Everyone screams, “”That’s going to kill her career,”” and yet, it never does. Should it? I don’t know…and it doesn’t matter. Fact is, it doesn’t.

Would I participate? Nope. Because I’m nice? No one’s accused me of that before. But as an author, I’d rather spend my time improving my own craft than tearing someone else apart for theirs. It’s the height of arrogance, IMO. But whatever. I certainly don’t think it’s going to hurt anyone’s career if they act like mean girls online. Not until I see it actually happen.

misty
misty
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08/29/2009 12:46 pm

I looked to see if this had made it to fandom_wank yet, which is pretty much the fandom equivalent of romfail, so I’m not passing judgment on the romfailers. A few things though….

First, you can’t be both a mean girl and a crybaby, or like Diana said, you can’t show your butt, and then cry when people call you a butthead. Romfail was created to mock books. There was no higher goal, and to try to rationalize it that way is silly. Just own it. If the romfailers had just brushed off Mr. Garton’s tweets, or blocked him, no one would even know about this. By being so defensive some have proven that they can dish it out, but they can’t take it.

Second, any author participating should be very careful. The potential for schadenfreude is high. I know nothing of how an author or publisher would feel about this, so I’ll leave that view point to others. As a reader, I’m likely to be more critical of your book after seeing you comment on another author’s work. Since you went there first, most readers will feel free to tear your books apart.

Third, and final point, I feel a little conflicted on Jane romfailing a book sent to her for review. That just doesn’t seem right to me, and I wish that she would rethink that. I like Dear Author, and I don’t think that the authors are the only people with something to lose. A guide was recently posted on DA about being professional and polite to people who provide ARCs, and I think using those books for romfail is rather disrespectful and something that DA should be careful of.

misty
misty
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08/29/2009 12:46 pm

I looked to see if this had made it to fandom_wank yet, which is pretty much the fandom equivalent of romfail, so I’m not passing judgment on the romfailers. A few things though….

First, you can’t be both a mean girl and a crybaby, or like Diana said, you can’t show your butt, and then cry when people call you a butthead. Romfail was created to mock books. There was no higher goal, and to try to rationalize it that way is silly. Just own it. If the romfailers had just brushed off Mr. Garton’s tweets, or blocked him, no one would even know about this. By being so defensive some have proven that they can dish it out, but they can’t take it.

Second, any author participating should be very careful. The potential for schadenfreude is high. I know nothing of how an author or publisher would feel about this, so I’ll leave that view point to others. As a reader, I’m likely to be more critical of your book after seeing you comment on another author’s work. Since you went there first, most readers will feel free to tear your books apart.

Third, and final point, I feel a little conflicted on Jane romfailing a book sent to her for review. That just doesn’t seem right to me, and I wish that she would rethink that. I like Dear Author, and I don’t think that the authors are the only people with something to lose. A guide was recently posted on DA about being professional and polite to people who provide ARCs, and I think using those books for romfail is rather disrespectful and something that DA should be careful of.

AAR Sandy
AAR Sandy
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08/29/2009 6:30 am

Janet W: Hate to post because I look so stupid but here goes:1. Don’t know what MST3K means — sorry. As for SNL, my generation, my analogy. Guess not everyone is going to agree and that’s OK.2. Xina, sorry, I’ve never participated in #romfail before but tonight I did (wanting to comment on something I understood) and I’ve read Sarah’s Child, Sarah’s Child is a friend of mine (sorry, slipped in a little silly there) so I don’t know if it’s a different approach or not. I do know I thought it was hysterical, mostly because I have ALL those LH heroes on my keeper shelf even though they are truly … well, truly something else!So I can’t see the difference. Without introducing NC17 topics, certainly some of the tweets were pretty hot so I guess I should just say I went, I liked, it seemed like a fun “inside the romanlandia family” type of roast. What do my kids say, “no worries”.

Janet W, knowing what I know, I don’t see it that way at all.

AAR Sandy
AAR Sandy
Guest
08/29/2009 6:30 am

Janet W: Hate to post because I look so stupid but here goes:1. Don’t know what MST3K means — sorry. As for SNL, my generation, my analogy. Guess not everyone is going to agree and that’s OK.2. Xina, sorry, I’ve never participated in #romfail before but tonight I did (wanting to comment on something I understood) and I’ve read Sarah’s Child, Sarah’s Child is a friend of mine (sorry, slipped in a little silly there) so I don’t know if it’s a different approach or not. I do know I thought it was hysterical, mostly because I have ALL those LH heroes on my keeper shelf even though they are truly … well, truly something else!So I can’t see the difference. Without introducing NC17 topics, certainly some of the tweets were pretty hot so I guess I should just say I went, I liked, it seemed like a fun “inside the romanlandia family” type of roast. What do my kids say, “no worries”.

Janet W, knowing what I know, I don’t see it that way at all.

SonomaLass
SonomaLass
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08/29/2009 2:03 am

As a regular #romfail participant, I have to say that the level of snark (or “”mocking, snorting”” if you prefer) depends on the book, not any outside warnings or perceptions of defensibility. Linda Howard’s book got snarked for the doormat/asshat quality — but we’re not going to make fun of her for creative anatomy (Passion) or piss-poor proofreading (some previous Fridays), because those aren’t there. Most of us who gather on Fridays are voracious readers of romance — yes, consumers, whose dollars keep authors in business. And we exercise our first amendment rights to express our thoughts, even in ways that are *gasp* “”not nice”” or even MEAN. We mock what’s there, and that’s very different from book to book.

I’m not an author, nor is my professional identity in any way connected to my online identity. Authors need to decide for themselves on issues related to on-line presence — expressing a personal opinion about another author’s work, like expressing a political opinion, could cut either way. I will say that I have gone out of my way to purchase books by authors whose sense of humor, and sense of what works in romance, first came to my attention via their participation in #romfail. So far, I have not been disappointed.

SonomaLass
SonomaLass
Guest
08/29/2009 2:03 am

As a regular #romfail participant, I have to say that the level of snark (or “”mocking, snorting”” if you prefer) depends on the book, not any outside warnings or perceptions of defensibility. Linda Howard’s book got snarked for the doormat/asshat quality — but we’re not going to make fun of her for creative anatomy (Passion) or piss-poor proofreading (some previous Fridays), because those aren’t there. Most of us who gather on Fridays are voracious readers of romance — yes, consumers, whose dollars keep authors in business. And we exercise our first amendment rights to express our thoughts, even in ways that are *gasp* “”not nice”” or even MEAN. We mock what’s there, and that’s very different from book to book.

I’m not an author, nor is my professional identity in any way connected to my online identity. Authors need to decide for themselves on issues related to on-line presence — expressing a personal opinion about another author’s work, like expressing a political opinion, could cut either way. I will say that I have gone out of my way to purchase books by authors whose sense of humor, and sense of what works in romance, first came to my attention via their participation in #romfail. So far, I have not been disappointed.

Diana
Diana
Guest
08/29/2009 12:56 am

The authors who took part in shredding Lisa Valdez’s Passion were considerably less cautious and that went on for 2 or 3 weeks. Mocking, snorting, and congratulating each other on their wit and superior writing skills. Those authors were all conspicuously absent tonight. This was the chickenshit version. Valdez an easier and more defenseless victim than Howard, who is, after all Linda Howard.

Diana
Diana
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08/29/2009 12:56 am

The authors who took part in shredding Lisa Valdez’s Passion were considerably less cautious and that went on for 2 or 3 weeks. Mocking, snorting, and congratulating each other on their wit and superior writing skills. Those authors were all conspicuously absent tonight. This was the chickenshit version. Valdez an easier and more defenseless victim than Howard, who is, after all Linda Howard.

Janet W
Janet W
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08/29/2009 12:32 am

Hate to post because I look so stupid but here goes:

1. Don’t know what MST3K means — sorry. As for SNL, my generation, my analogy. Guess not everyone is going to agree and that’s OK.

2. Xina, sorry, I’ve never participated in #romfail before but tonight I did (wanting to comment on something I understood) and I’ve read Sarah’s Child, Sarah’s Child is a friend of mine (sorry, slipped in a little silly there) so I don’t know if it’s a different approach or not. I do know I thought it was hysterical, mostly because I have ALL those LH heroes on my keeper shelf even though they are truly … well, truly something else!

So I can’t see the difference. Without introducing NC17 topics, certainly some of the tweets were pretty hot so I guess I should just say I went, I liked, it seemed like a fun “”inside the romanlandia family”” type of roast. What do my kids say, “”no worries””.

Janet W
Janet W
Guest
08/29/2009 12:32 am

Hate to post because I look so stupid but here goes:

1. Don’t know what MST3K means — sorry. As for SNL, my generation, my analogy. Guess not everyone is going to agree and that’s OK.

2. Xina, sorry, I’ve never participated in #romfail before but tonight I did (wanting to comment on something I understood) and I’ve read Sarah’s Child, Sarah’s Child is a friend of mine (sorry, slipped in a little silly there) so I don’t know if it’s a different approach or not. I do know I thought it was hysterical, mostly because I have ALL those LH heroes on my keeper shelf even though they are truly … well, truly something else!

So I can’t see the difference. Without introducing NC17 topics, certainly some of the tweets were pretty hot so I guess I should just say I went, I liked, it seemed like a fun “”inside the romanlandia family”” type of roast. What do my kids say, “”no worries””.

xina
xina
Guest
08/28/2009 11:53 pm

Janet W: Pretty virulent indeed! The humour in reviews — here, DA, SB, all over the web — is wonderful! Anyhoo, I can’t imagine anyone not getting a kick outta a spoof of Sarah’s Child by Linda Howard — tonight on #romfail. It got a D on AAR … with a 2nd grade of B- from LLB who called it a book that (paraphrasing) strong emotions.Not to beat a dead horse but a lot of comedy is ridicule and much of it is affectionate … I just saw Julie and Julia and my guess is that Julia Child adored Dan Ackroyd’s spoof of her PBS show.I’ve reached, for me, that “we’ll have to agree to disagree” point. Yes, maybe to be on the safe sade authors should not participate but from the names I’ve read, it hasn’t been career ending for anyone. Book buying is at its essence an intensely personal decision: who knows what goes into the decision?

Hmmm…just got home, and looked at the so-funny-spoof on Sarah’s Child. Very PG, if I must say. But really….can’t you see the difference between this and the “”usual”” poking fun? I won’t put the words on AAR’s blog, but…please, there is a HUGE difference from the usual remarks. The ones that run the show at “”romfail”” have cleaned up their language BIG TIME. They were attacked on all sides, so they went with a PG Disney version. just sayin’… “”They”” know which side their bread is buttered on.

xina
xina
Guest
08/28/2009 11:53 pm

Janet W: Pretty virulent indeed! The humour in reviews — here, DA, SB, all over the web — is wonderful! Anyhoo, I can’t imagine anyone not getting a kick outta a spoof of Sarah’s Child by Linda Howard — tonight on #romfail. It got a D on AAR … with a 2nd grade of B- from LLB who called it a book that (paraphrasing) strong emotions.Not to beat a dead horse but a lot of comedy is ridicule and much of it is affectionate … I just saw Julie and Julia and my guess is that Julia Child adored Dan Ackroyd’s spoof of her PBS show.I’ve reached, for me, that “we’ll have to agree to disagree” point. Yes, maybe to be on the safe sade authors should not participate but from the names I’ve read, it hasn’t been career ending for anyone. Book buying is at its essence an intensely personal decision: who knows what goes into the decision?

Hmmm…just got home, and looked at the so-funny-spoof on Sarah’s Child. Very PG, if I must say. But really….can’t you see the difference between this and the “”usual”” poking fun? I won’t put the words on AAR’s blog, but…please, there is a HUGE difference from the usual remarks. The ones that run the show at “”romfail”” have cleaned up their language BIG TIME. They were attacked on all sides, so they went with a PG Disney version. just sayin’… “”They”” know which side their bread is buttered on.

Diana
Diana
Guest
08/28/2009 10:51 pm

It’s a choice we all make when we go online. If you choose to show your butt, some people might think you’re a butthead.

To compare the brilliant scripted writing of MST3K (which romfailers have done with a straight face) or the old days of SNL to romfail is a leap I can’t make. It’s not even close to decent satire.

Diana
Diana
Guest
08/28/2009 10:51 pm

It’s a choice we all make when we go online. If you choose to show your butt, some people might think you’re a butthead.

To compare the brilliant scripted writing of MST3K (which romfailers have done with a straight face) or the old days of SNL to romfail is a leap I can’t make. It’s not even close to decent satire.

Janet W
Janet W
Guest
08/28/2009 9:34 pm

Something we can all agree on … an edit button for comments? LOL … I meant to say side, not sade and engendered strong …

Janet W
Janet W
Guest
08/28/2009 9:34 pm

Something we can all agree on … an edit button for comments? LOL … I meant to say side, not sade and engendered strong …

Margaret
Margaret
Guest
08/28/2009 9:30 pm

Janet W wrote…And they enjoy being a part of the fun AND the fray?

What about their feelings? Who’s to say it doesn’t help their sales if their readers feel like they’re getting to know the “real” McCoy behind the words?………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………..

As they say there’s no such thing as bad publicity. I guess if an author wants to be in on the fun and fray that’s their choice. I’m just wondering about professional courtesy. There are many authors at AAR that add to the conversation in an appropriate way.

Margaret
Margaret
Guest
08/28/2009 9:30 pm

Janet W wrote…And they enjoy being a part of the fun AND the fray?

What about their feelings? Who’s to say it doesn’t help their sales if their readers feel like they’re getting to know the “real” McCoy behind the words?………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………..

As they say there’s no such thing as bad publicity. I guess if an author wants to be in on the fun and fray that’s their choice. I’m just wondering about professional courtesy. There are many authors at AAR that add to the conversation in an appropriate way.

Janet W
Janet W
Guest
08/28/2009 9:30 pm

Pretty virulent indeed! The humour in reviews — here, DA, SB, all over the web — is wonderful! Anyhoo, I can’t imagine anyone not getting a kick outta a spoof of Sarah’s Child by Linda Howard — tonight on #romfail. It got a D on AAR … with a 2nd grade of B- from LLB who called it a book that (paraphrasing) strong emotions.

Not to beat a dead horse but a lot of comedy is ridicule and much of it is affectionate … I just saw Julie and Julia and my guess is that Julia Child adored Dan Ackroyd’s spoof of her PBS show.

I’ve reached, for me, that “”we’ll have to agree to disagree”” point. Yes, maybe to be on the safe sade authors should not participate but from the names I’ve read, it hasn’t been career ending for anyone. Book buying is at its essence an intensely personal decision: who knows what goes into the decision?

Janet W
Janet W
Guest
08/28/2009 9:30 pm

Pretty virulent indeed! The humour in reviews — here, DA, SB, all over the web — is wonderful! Anyhoo, I can’t imagine anyone not getting a kick outta a spoof of Sarah’s Child by Linda Howard — tonight on #romfail. It got a D on AAR … with a 2nd grade of B- from LLB who called it a book that (paraphrasing) strong emotions.

Not to beat a dead horse but a lot of comedy is ridicule and much of it is affectionate … I just saw Julie and Julia and my guess is that Julia Child adored Dan Ackroyd’s spoof of her PBS show.

I’ve reached, for me, that “”we’ll have to agree to disagree”” point. Yes, maybe to be on the safe sade authors should not participate but from the names I’ve read, it hasn’t been career ending for anyone. Book buying is at its essence an intensely personal decision: who knows what goes into the decision?

MaryK
MaryK
Guest
08/28/2009 9:18 pm

AAR Sandy: I just wanted to be clear here that I’m not talking about feelings.I’m talking about really bad business decisions.

Authors get in trouble just writing reviews so definitely authors trashing others’ books is an issue. But this latest storm hasn’t been limited to that issue. I’ve seen some pretty virulent comments aimed at readers and the DA bloggers.

MaryK
MaryK
Guest
08/28/2009 9:18 pm

AAR Sandy: I just wanted to be clear here that I’m not talking about feelings.I’m talking about really bad business decisions.

Authors get in trouble just writing reviews so definitely authors trashing others’ books is an issue. But this latest storm hasn’t been limited to that issue. I’ve seen some pretty virulent comments aimed at readers and the DA bloggers.

xina
xina
Guest
08/28/2009 6:10 pm

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Janet W: Agree with Mary K about the gathering of READERS who comment on books they like/lurv/don’t like etc. … can’t comment on anything but the online communities you’ve mentioned since I’m not too brill in the world of social media. I do wonder if an author entering into a discussion of her book is such a brilliant idea — better maybe to just preserve your cool and participate in being a guest blogger, doing a blog tour but good grief, some of this has to be up to the individual, right? My 22 year-old son and 79 year-old mum both watch Jon Stewart — I guess I’m trying to say that satire and having fun is often in the eye of the beholder and (sorry, trite but true), if you don’t like it, don’t read it and don’t join in.

I love Jon Stewart, Conan and David Letterman to name just a few. I wouldn’t compare this on any level to real comedy.

xina
xina
Guest
08/28/2009 6:10 pm

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Janet W: Agree with Mary K about the gathering of READERS who comment on books they like/lurv/don’t like etc. … can’t comment on anything but the online communities you’ve mentioned since I’m not too brill in the world of social media. I do wonder if an author entering into a discussion of her book is such a brilliant idea — better maybe to just preserve your cool and participate in being a guest blogger, doing a blog tour but good grief, some of this has to be up to the individual, right? My 22 year-old son and 79 year-old mum both watch Jon Stewart — I guess I’m trying to say that satire and having fun is often in the eye of the beholder and (sorry, trite but true), if you don’t like it, don’t read it and don’t join in.

I love Jon Stewart, Conan and David Letterman to name just a few. I wouldn’t compare this on any level to real comedy.

AAR Sandy
AAR Sandy
Guest
08/28/2009 5:12 pm

I just wanted to be clear here that I’m not talking about feelings. I’m talking about really bad business decisions.

AAR Sandy
AAR Sandy
Guest
08/28/2009 5:12 pm

I just wanted to be clear here that I’m not talking about feelings. I’m talking about really bad business decisions.

Janet W
Janet W
Guest
08/28/2009 5:08 pm

Agree with Mary K about the gathering of READERS who comment on books they like/lurv/don’t like etc. … can’t comment on anything but the online communities you’ve mentioned since I’m not too brill in the world of social media. I do wonder if an author entering into a discussion of her book is such a brilliant idea — better maybe to just preserve your cool and participate in being a guest blogger, doing a blog tour but good grief, some of this has to be up to the individual, right? My 22 year-old son and 79 year-old mum both watch Jon Stewart — I guess I’m trying to say that satire and having fun is often in the eye of the beholder and (sorry, trite but true), if you don’t like it, don’t read it and don’t join in.

Janet W
Janet W
Guest
08/28/2009 5:08 pm

Agree with Mary K about the gathering of READERS who comment on books they like/lurv/don’t like etc. … can’t comment on anything but the online communities you’ve mentioned since I’m not too brill in the world of social media. I do wonder if an author entering into a discussion of her book is such a brilliant idea — better maybe to just preserve your cool and participate in being a guest blogger, doing a blog tour but good grief, some of this has to be up to the individual, right? My 22 year-old son and 79 year-old mum both watch Jon Stewart — I guess I’m trying to say that satire and having fun is often in the eye of the beholder and (sorry, trite but true), if you don’t like it, don’t read it and don’t join in.

xina
xina
Guest
08/28/2009 4:44 pm

Well, google #romfail and take a look at authors tearing apart the book of the week. Heh…I’d like to see their book on the chopping block. Wonder if they’d be yucking it up then. Doubt it.

xina
xina
Guest
08/28/2009 4:44 pm

Well, google #romfail and take a look at authors tearing apart the book of the week. Heh…I’d like to see their book on the chopping block. Wonder if they’d be yucking it up then. Doubt it.

MaryK
MaryK
Guest
08/28/2009 4:40 pm

Places like Dear Author, Smart Bitches, the AAR message boards, and #romfail are for readers. They’re where readers gather to say what they think about romance novels. If authors want to know the completely honest, off-the-cuff opinions of readers, they’re welcome to join in. But readers don’t pretty up their opinions – they talk about their visceral reactions to books. An author wouldn’t want to witness a reader’s encounter with a wallbanger.

Why get involved in reader discussions if you don’t want to hear what readers really think? It’s not a good idea. And to then complain that readers shouldn’t say such things because authors have feelings too? Please. If you don’t want to know, don’t listen.

MaryK
MaryK
Guest
08/28/2009 4:40 pm

Places like Dear Author, Smart Bitches, the AAR message boards, and #romfail are for readers. They’re where readers gather to say what they think about romance novels. If authors want to know the completely honest, off-the-cuff opinions of readers, they’re welcome to join in. But readers don’t pretty up their opinions – they talk about their visceral reactions to books. An author wouldn’t want to witness a reader’s encounter with a wallbanger.

Why get involved in reader discussions if you don’t want to hear what readers really think? It’s not a good idea. And to then complain that readers shouldn’t say such things because authors have feelings too? Please. If you don’t want to know, don’t listen.