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the ask@AAR: What’s the most important characteristic a lover can have?

ByDabney Grinnan 07/16/202107/16/2021
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When my husband and I were first dating, we’d have this satisfying conversation about relational deal breakers. (We’d proverbially pat ourselves on the back because we, of course, did not have each other’s “I simply couldn’t…

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the ask@AAR: Is it OK for lovers to lie to one another?

ByDabney Grinnan 07/09/202107/08/2021
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My book club just read Pieces of Her by Karin Slaughter and, in our meeting, we had a long and heated disagreement discussion about whether or not and/or when it’s OK to lie to one’s children….

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the ask@AAR: Where have all the true rakes gone?

ByDabney Grinnan 07/02/202107/01/2021
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In an interesting conversation in the comments for Harper St. George’s recent release The Devil and the Heiress. Marian posted a link to an article that said: The rakes in historical romances are, by and large,…

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the ask@AAR: What’s the best vacation you’ve ever taken?

ByDabney Grinnan 06/25/202106/24/2021
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I am on a mediocre vacation. It’s a large family trip to a very boring beach with accommodations that unfortunately resembles a cave. The weather has been on the chilly side and the traffic is a…

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the ask@AAR: How are you feeling about historical romance?

ByDabney Grinnan 06/18/202106/17/2021
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In October of 2019, we asked you whether you thought historical romance had a quality problem. That column is still the most commented upon Ask column and it made many angry. In the past twenty months,…

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the ask@AAR: What was the first romance novel you read?

ByDabney Grinnan 06/11/202106/14/2021
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While the first romance that ever really registered with me is Sweet, Savage Love (and I attribute that to it being the first book in which the sex was varied and, for the time, explicit), the…

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the ask@AAR: Can romance include abortion?

ByDabney Grinnan 06/04/202106/03/2021
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Almost 50% of pregnancies in the United States are unintended and, in 40% of those, women chose to end their pregnancies. Whether you’re pro-life or pro-choice, the fact is many women choose abortion–nearly 1 in 4…

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the ask@AAR: What’s your favorite queer romance?

ByDabney Grinnan 05/28/202105/27/2021
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This week, the New York Times has a lovely column by Olivia Waite in which she recommends six romances with queer protagonists. Waite writes: Time was I could have covered every queer romance novel put out…

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the ask@AAR: What’s the most romantic season?

ByDabney Grinnan 05/21/202105/21/2021
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Here in the American Southeast, summer is closing in. When Sophie and I walk in my neighborhood, people are out in shorts and slides, and the sound of air-conditioning hums all around us. It’s hot and…

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the ask@AAR: What famous couple would you like to inspire a romance novel?

ByDabney Grinnan 05/14/202105/13/2021
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One of my favorite country love songs of the past few years is Johnny Cash Heart by Caleb Lee Hutchison. The chorus is: You wrap me up in some kind of magic Lift me up, take me…

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