An Authorial Snit
Though it’s nothing to be proud of, the “can’t look away from a train wreck” mentality is deeply engrained in most of us poor humans. And, sadly, the Brockmann Dead of Night kerfuffle has devolved into one of the biggest I’ve ever witnessed in more than 10 years of hanging around the online romance community.
On the one hand, you’ve got readers – formerly loyal readers – who feel betrayed by the author and who continue to express their outrage. On the other, you’ve got an author who seems to be closing ranks in a way I have really never seen before.
My eyebrows shot way up into my hairline over two incidents this week: The first – and I’ve seen the message, but won’t quote it here – is a report I’ve heard that Brockmann has blocked from her fan message board those who have posted elsewhere (presumably AAR is one of the bad sites) criticizing the book. In a nutshell, she claims to be afraid that the “threats” will result in physical violence.
The second was a post made by the author herself at a Barnes and Noble Center Stage book club thread. Most of the posts were overwhelmingly positive and the author responded with much rah-rah-ing and many exclamation points. A few dared to ask the question du jour and, for the most part, they seemed to be shoved on the back burner, if not downright ignored.
The poster hopefloats, however, wasn’t so lucky. Quite honestly, I thought her question was respectful, intelligent, and worthy of answer. Brockmann’s response – well, read it and judge for yourself (you may have to scroll down the page a bit to find it) – came across to me as overwhelmingly smug.
Still, amidst all the condescension, she makes some undeniably excellent points. Many readers (me included) enjoyed the book. So, how does an author weigh the responses of one group of readers versus another? She’s the author. It’s her vision. And she should write the books she wants to.
I agree with all of that. With regards to her fears for her physical safety, I certainly don’t know if she’s received any threats. Stalking is serious business and I’ve heard scary reports from inside the romance community that can really open your eyes.
But then there is this:
“And I know that the people who disapprove of me and Dark of Night (and probably Jules Cassidy, too. Let’s be honest about what this is about, at least for some of these disproportionately angry folks) are a small portion of the online romance reading population. (Talk about limited!)”
In case you can’t read between the lines there, she is accusing some readers who didn’t like Dark of Night of homophobia. I’m almost disappointed that she didn’t refer to them as “card-carrying homophobes” which would have added an extra little whiff of drama, don’t you think?
I don’t have anything to say about this except that the author is out of line. W-a-a-a-a-a-y out of line.
I’ve thought for some time that Brockmann has isolated herself in her fan community to her detriment – I mean, how else can you reconcile a Navy SEAL using the word “prolly”? She’s writing to please readers, whether she even admits it to herself or not. And the truth is that cutting yourself off from the Internet or any reviews is one thing. Cutting yourself off from everything but the positive is entirely another.
Here’s where I net out: If an author wants to limit access to her fan message board, it’s her board, her money, and her choice. But when she puts herself out there on public forums – as she did at Barnes and Noble – then you have to take the good with the bad. The poster was respectful. Brockmann was not.
Whether or not this will ever come back to bite her in the ass is anybody’s guess. Clearly, she doesn’t think so since she dismisses the online romance community as some sort of lunatic fringe. To paraphrase a line from Seinfeld, smugness is not an attractive quality.
– Sandy AAR
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Mrsgiggles take on the whole thing:
http://kg184613.bravejournal.com/entry/34978
Mrsgiggles take on the whole thing:
http://kg184613.bravejournal.com/entry/34978
Late to the party and have now put this blog on my G. Reader.
All I can say is that after 4+yrs on the SBBB and one of the “”refugees””… What Chryssa said sums it all up perfectly.
As for the book, I could have cared less about the pairing. My SB enjoyment ended with ITS, ITF was just as bad IMO. I’ve posted my opinions on both elsewhere, but to bottom line it the writing style/characters did not interest me. I was not a fangirl of SB’s. It was my first MB and I made some wonderful friends over the years. I had spent about 6mths before the kerfuffle trying to break the habit and wasn’t succeeding at it. I missed “”the gang””. I’m happy they decided to stay over at the BLMB, it feels like home again.
I’ve read DON… If I noticed how poorly it was editted. The hanging plot threads… the how did they get there from here…. everyone else should have.
S.
Julie, I understand what you’re saying about not wanting to deprive yourself of a good reading experience just because of this. For me, though, there are so many other authors to enjoy, I won’t miss it. As pointed out above, la Brockman beats her readers over the head with her tolerance, her enlightenment, her empathy, and on and on. One of my pet peeves is people who profess to be so progressive and so enlightened and then show themselves to be utterly intolerant of criticism, or opposite opinions. Add to that just plain rudeness and lack of courtesy toward another, and I’m just done with her. It’s not like there aren’t 10 other authors I enjoy just as much. I’ll support them.
Mary,
it’s comedic irony at it’s best!
we are lectured to outright and via subtext throughout her stories, to point out to us our own unacknowledged, ignorant, intolerance (read: our narrow minded bigoted ways) and yet, she cannot tolerate to hear, read or listen to an opinion which she doesn’t agree with, hmmm
guess Ghandi said it best when he said “”you must be the change you wish to see in the world””
brecken
I am not surprised at Brockmann’s reaction. I gave up on her when in one of her stories, the bad guy was a blue eyed blonde and the good guy was from the Middle East. I guess I was supposed to say -Gee – I never knew those things. Thanks for opening my eyes. – Her assumption that she is the enlightened one and we the readers are stupid bigots is awesome. It came across in her response. It must be wonderful to be the Brockmann.
As much as I don’t care for what she’s saying/doing, I can’t say I really want to deprive myself of a good reading experience. I enjoy her books, even the ones I haven’t thought were as good as the others. So, maybe I’ll just start getting them new from the library and buying them used later. B/c I do want to keep them.
I’m a former Brockmann fan who tired of her books a couple of years ago. Back when I was still a fan, I visited her bb once or twice, but couldn’t take all the fawning going on by the fangrrls. Suz most definitely lapped it all up. I’ve followed the DofN controversy just a little – I was wondering where her story arc was headed and if I might want to give her series another try. Guess not. Although DofN received good reviews, and I’m not invested in any particular couple and wouldn’t care who ended up with whom, I’m just not going to support an author who behaves in such a condescending, smug, and rude way. It’s her right to do so, it’s my right to decide that she’s acting like a butt and I’d rather not spend my money on her.
I too, was a diehard Brockmann fan. I’d never read a romance until a friend gave me Brockmann’s Unsung Hero and wham, just that fast, I was hooked on Brockmann and the genre both! I was ecstatic to find there were 4 more already in print for me to read. And each book was better than the previous one!
That said, the honeymoon ended for me when her character Max, was decimated by a poorly written story in his book, turning him into a character few found recognizable or enjoyable. It had a grossly disjointed story, which seemed to continue in books following and from that book on, I’ve yet to be able to finish another Brockmann book.
The authorial snit, precise summary that it is, has being going on for a year and a half! But the fault lies with Brockmann. Her “”interesting bulletin board community”” abruptly ended when Brockmann decided to silence dissenting opinion and then in 08, to use it as a platform for Obama’s election. Thus began the blatant harassing of loyal fans and longtime posters who had differing views, replete with outright name calling, including inferences to Nazis and the labeling of some as members of the Third Reich by other board members. Brockmann’s claim of ignorance on the aforementioned was patently absurd, as she and members of her camp were signed in and online for days upon days, during that time period. Additionally her camp and her family members frequently post on her board, it would have been impossible for them to miss.
Though claim she did, and as of late, appointing moderators “”to be her eyes and ears””, several of whom are clearly unable to differentiate between an insult, an argument, and an opinion, not to mention, first amendment boundaries, as they troll other sites looking for criticism of Brockmann’s work. WTH? However, they seem to be following the example set, as Brockmann, merely days ago, condescendingly posted on her board: “”and babycakes we know who you are and my moderators are authorized to open a can of whoop-ass on you””!
what? Apparently, someone’s back in junior high now…Speaking of “”ought a get a life””?
From what I have observed first-hand, I believe “”smug”” is really more about “”there being only one correct opinion or view.”” For if you disagree with her views, “”you must not like her”” and you are “”disrespectful””, if you dare publicly air a contrary opinion, you’re banned! And, if you don’t like her books, then you’re labeled a homophobe first and then you’re banned (as it certainly cannot be people simply didn’t care for the story, oh no, it positively must be that they’re homophobes, and don;t forget homophobe begets violence! ..Huh? ….that logic is flawed beyond description)
now that I think about it? Brockmann really ought to remove the photo of herself on her website in that shirt with the slogan “”Talk About It””!! She obviously doesn’t believe in that! My question here though is how has Brockmann’s silencing everyone on that topic and creating a “”NO TALK ZONE””, furthered her cause or helped her child? How? Typically, people who change their mind on any issue, do so because they have been given food for thought. Now that’s a very difficult thing to accomplish when you have silenced the rhetoric and all so that you yourself will feel better in the short term! And worse by far, it impedes progress and nothing changes!
so when folks began to voice their disenchantment, just as she did on B&N, she said, they ought to leave her alone and get a life! well I did, after book eight, and it no longer included Brockmann books, but does include voicing my opinion! (after all, it’s still America, at least for a little while longer ;)
And the disenchanted became a serious voice to be reckoned with when she began a veiled dissing of the very heroes in the stories that put her on the map. Though, I truly doubt that she cares one iota about any of it since she inked her UK deal.
All in all, hopefully she will find some relief (BHRT) and soon, from what appears to be a lot of pent up anger and hostility, because the only thing more annoyingly obnoxious than someone’s constant paranoid chatter, is their delusions of grandeur……..
although, come to think of it…the two frequently do go hand in hand ;)
Can she ban who she wants on her board? Absolutely. Can she have people troll the internet to find people who have spoken out against her or her book and ban them from her board? Absolutely. Does it speak of hypocracy to complain about cyberstalkers and then send out people to do the same thing? I think so. Will the person who was banned come out on other message boards and tell thier story? Yup. Is it a bad idea to go on another message board and associate anyone who didnt like parts of the book with being a homophobe (even some)? Again, I think so. Is all of this bad PR? Absolutely.
It will not affect many because a lot of readers do not come on message boards but it turned loyal fans (of which I am one but did not necessarily like the storyline choice and god forbid I have an opinion about what I am reading) who actually sought her out to have a bad taste in thier mouth. That is the bottom line.
It is her world she has created. Both the Troubleshooters and her message board. As a reader I can choose to participate or not. I now choose not. This was not the case even a couple of weeks ago. And I pray this is my last post that has anything to do with Suzanne Brockmann and her self-made controversies.
Thanks to Chryssa for a thoughtful, well written post that calmly summarizes some very turbulent events surrounding this controversy.
Thanks, library addict. I have actually been following this, but couldn’t find where the author originally talked about “”surprising”” the readers. Sorry, I’m not trying to dig up old issues, it’s just that so much has been said that I’ve forgotten what was said at the very beginning. LOL
That aside, I agree that bringing homophobia into the equation is really bizarre. I haven’t seen anything posted here or at AAR or DA that would make her leap to that conclusion. If she has received homophobic threats from Decker/Sophia fans she should maybe let that be known, otherwise it looks like she is trying to manipulate people into shushing up because they don’t want to be labeled crazy homophobes.
She took a risk that worked for some, and not for others. How could she not have known that some people would be upset? To think that the real problem is homophobia, instead of just a response to a controversial book, seems like a slightly unhealthy viewpoint. (I know that she didn’t say that all her naysayers were homophobic, but she obviously thought enough of them were to call them out on a public board.)
Misty said: I’ve kept out of this because I’ve never even heard of S. Brockmann until this kerfluffle, but I have a question. Did the idea that the author was trying to surprise the readers with a pairing they weren’t expecting come from something the author said, or just speculation?
She said multiple times that she wanted readers to be surprised by the h/h in book 14 (Dark of Night) and wrote her own cover “”blurb”” for the book so the h/h would remain a secret.
There were clues supporting both sides of the triangle by book 13 (Into the Fire), but the clues for Dave getting the girl didn’t start until book 10 (Into the Storm) and were thought to be red herrings by many simply because there been so many clues for Decker & Sophia in the previous books (which turned out to be all smoke & mirrors). She listed Decker & Sophia as a couple on a poll she created and referred to the story arc as the “”Sophia and Decker story arc”” multiple times in the Reader’s Guide she wrote. The 3 major characters were introduced back in book 7 (Flashpoint) in 2004.
Probably the shortest explanation-with arguments from both sides- can be found in the comments from one of Sandy’s previous blog posts
http://www.likesbooks.com/blog/?p=273
Although there’s always the big thread here at AAR as well as a poll/thread from Dear Author on Reader Expectations and various other threads at boards like Amazon, etc. if you feel like reading ALL about it :lol:
–Avalon says: I think it’s of grave concern that she has people trolling other sites, looking for what she views as offenders and matching them up with someone who posts on her board, in order to ban them.–
There is no need for any author to name or appoint people to troll other sites. It would not only be illogical to do so, it would be a waste of time and energy when all it takes is one email to someone saying:
“”did you see this post on ‘xyz’ board? Here’s the link.””
That poster follows the link and reports back to their group of posters at ‘klm’ board and one of those posters sends it on to another poster who happens to know another poster who belongs to the ‘abc’ board that the ‘xyz’ posters are discussing. That poster happens to have access or attachment to the ‘xyz’ author (or moderators) and sends an email that says:
“”did you see this post on xyz board? Here’s the link.””
By this time the original nugget has become a meteor hurtling through space with a built-in guarantee to cause a mess of backlash the moment it lands.
I’ve kept out of this because I’ve never even heard of S. Brockmann until this kerfluffle, but I have a question. Did the idea that the author was trying to surprise the readers with a pairing they weren’t expecting come from something the author said, or just speculation?
shoot – sorry about the double post!!
@L:
“”And if she posted at some time in the future that she had no idea her mods were wearing jackboots, she has a right to say that as well.””
As I said in a earlier post – there is a thing called due diligance and it is based on the idea that if you are in charge of something(which she is as board owner) claiming ignorance after the fact does not make you not guilty.
She has put people in charge of moderating her board – people she vetted – and as a result is directly responsible for their every action as moderators…even she does not visit her board in a year. These moderators have gone well beyond any normal duty by actively seeking out any member (past or present) that has posted a negative (in their minds) comment anywhere in cyberspace….in many cases these members have never posted anything negative on her bb but are now being punished regardless.
SB also states that her moderators are being “”attacked”” on outside bb’s – yet she has no problem with them cyberstalking and ignoring the hate that is spewed on her own board……I had no problem with SB or her books until this latest brouhaha and until I was banned last week for daring to stand up to people on her board in defense of others (again, while saying absolutely NOTHING negative about SB or her books).
I have no problem with her banning people if they ARE causing trouble or promoting hatred towards others (as you said it is HER board), however, I believe the whole situation has gotten completely out of hand and she does need to acknowledge it in some way or another besides claiming that everyone is a homophobic psycho that is after her and her loyal fans.
@L:
“”And if she posted at some time in the future that she had no idea her mods were wearing jackboots, she has a right to say that as well.””
As I said in a earlier post – there is a thing called due diligance and it is based on the idea that if you are in charge of something(which she is as board owner) claiming ignorance after the fact does not make you not guilty.
She has put people in charge of moderating her board – people she vetted – and as a result is directly responsible for their every action as moderators…even she does not visit her board in a year. These moderators have gone well beyond any normal duty by actively seeking out any member (past or present) that has posted a negative (in their minds) comment anywhere in cyberspace….in many cases these members have never posted anything negative on her bb but are now being punished regardless.
SB also states that her moderators are being “”attacked”” on outside bb’s – yet she has no problem with them cyberstalking and ignoring the hate that is spewed on her own board……I had no problem with SB or her books until this latest brouhaha and until I was banned last week for daring to stand up to people on her board in defense of others (again, while saying absolutely NOTHING negative about SB or her books).
I have no problem with her banning people if they ARE causing trouble or promoting hatred towards others, however, I believe the whole situation has gotten completely out of hand and she does need to acknowledge it in some way or another besides claiming that everyone is a homophobic psycho that is after her and her loyal fans.
The right to say something does not make it the right thing to say.
The right to do something does not make it the right thing to do.
Rights are more about the lowest acceptable behaviour rather than polite interactions.
If Brockmann wants to be seen as hypocritical and shoot herself in the foot, she has every right to do so. It doesn’t mean I believe it is the best, most correct course of action.
She is not posting on other boards trying to censor speech there. She is limiting access to her BB. Her corner of the web where she pays the bills. And if she posted at some time in the future that she had no idea her mods were wearing jackboots, she has a right to say that as well. Just as it is my right to call b*llsh!t.
I agree with anon. Limiting contact is probably the most sensible course.
–Avalon says: I think it’s of grave concern that she has people trolling other sites, looking for what she views as offenders and matching them up with someone who posts on her board, in order to ban them.–
I’m conjuring up the image of long ago in movies when someone found something unsatisfying about themselves or an issue in a newspaper and they went scouting up all the newspapers they could find so they could destroy them. It certainly wasn’t effective then and it isn’t any more so now with the Internet.
Avalon, I know what you and others are trying to point out here as freedom of speech, but I have to agree with L in that it’s Brockmann’s own site and she can admit or ban anyone she chooses for any reason she chooses just because it is hers to do with as she wishes. If I had a website and I didn’t like certain people coming on and making wisecracks or whatever, I would have the right to block them. Even in Facebook, we can block certain people from contacting us or accessing our information, just because it’s our little piece of property on the old homestead.
Here at AAR and other sites where all books and all authors are discussed, it may not be that easy to do; although if a poster is being disrespectful or threatening, I’m sure it can be done easily enough in those cases and others. After all, there does have to be some kind of code, at least on the more respectable sites, that is.
If Brockmann doesn’t want certain people posting on HER own site, she has that right, as we all do. She doesn’t even have to offer a reason. She sets the tone for that site and decides how she wants to handle it. If she doesn’t want you there, why would you want to be there anyway? There’s a saying: “”If you don’t want me in your life, then I don’t want me in your life either.”” Why would we want to waste our time where we’re clearly not accepted. This is not a life and death matter. This reading stuff and discussions are supposed to be fun. When it turns into ugly, then we truly are wasting our time and talents and anything else.
So, speaking of that, here I am again participating when I shouldn’t be. LOL (Are you reading this, Willow–and laughing, I hope?) It really is difficult to watch the avalanche sliding down the hillside and not be able to hold it back. In this case, some of the options really are more limited than what most people think in terms of personal websites.
After reading more of this so-called train wreck here and elsewhere on the web, I’m all the more convinced that authors and readers should not engage with each other about anything except the superficial, “”Thank you, I’m so glad you liked my book!”” or, “”I’m so sorry this book didn’t work for you, I hope you’ll try the next one.””
I think, IMHO, there is a lesson to be learned here, for both parties. I think Brockmann’s biggest mistake may have been two-fold — 1) making her BB more of a family living room, where she took offense when invited guests began asking her why she put cinnamon in the cookies when the recipe had always called for nutmeg (which, understandably, and from Brockmann’s perspective, is a little rude), and 2) adding politics when the discussion was about cookies. –shudder–
I think there are several big name authors (SEP comes to mind, but I could be totally wrong?) who have personal BBs, but I _think_ the authors themselves are detached from them. IOW, the readers have a common area where they can all get together to discuss the books, and maybe once a week (or in a blue moon) the author steps in to say hi and “”gee thanks!”” and whatever, but he/she doesn’t get involved as if the talk is personal. If readers disagree on whether the cookie recipe has changed, well, the author isn’t in the living room to care — the guests can argue all they want.
But politics? Ouch. Nothing ruins a good conversation between a thousand different people like politics, especially this last election in the US. Then throw in some good old Prop 8 discussion for flavor? On purpose? That’s like setting the table with bacon-wrapped T-bones steaks then opening the door to a pack of starving wolves. Try, just try, to keep them from helping themselves and destroying your dinner party.
It’s sad that so many people had their feelings hurt. It seems unnecessary to me, but I can’t help but think it’s just wise for an author to distance him/herself from readers except for TOTALLY superficial book talk.
The question really is where is free speech defensible and where is it not?
It would seem that we’ll have to agree to disagree in this instance, L, because I don’t think there is any question in any of this topic of conversation about free speech being defensible. You apparently don’t feel the same way.
Ms. Brockmann is most definitely, in my mind, trying to limit and control what people say elsewhere. I think it’s of grave concern that she has people trolling other sites, looking for what she views as offenders and matching them up with someone who posts on her board, in order to ban them. Regardless of whether they say anything she objects to on her board, she bans them for saying something somewhere else. If you don’t view that as being a concern, I’d have to question your eyesight, but certainly grant you the right to view it whatever way you wish and respectfully disagree with your opinion. I won’t, however, try to ban you from expressing it.
Avalon- I have no problem with free speech. I just do not make the assumption that a privately paid for corner of the web is the same as a city street.
Brockmann can let whomever she wants on her site. Or not. She can allow any topic. Or not. She paid for it. Her name is on it. She is not restricting anybody from saying anything they want anywhere else. Her board. Her rules. Her choices.
Don’t make the mistake of thinking that everyone else should have freedoms on her message board except the person that paid for the bandwidth. If she said every post had to be written in Haiku format or be deleted, that would be her choice as well.
All rights are restricted in some manner. We all know and submit to them. No guns on school property. No yelling “”fire”” in a crowded theater. My right to swing my fist ends before I hit someone else’s nose.
The question really is where is free speech defensible and where is it not?
Tee,
That’s how we all feel! This is a train wreck and we just can’t walk away! Different issues keep coming up and we end up coming back and commenting.
It’s like the mob, each time we think we are free we get pulled back in! LOL!!!
L,
Did you even read the posts on this board? The issue isn’t what is said on her board, she can make it as gushingly fan girl as she wants to (although she’ll end up alienating more fans then attracting)
Her mods, with her consent, are going to other boards looking for anything that’s written they don’t agree with and then banning that poster from the SB MB. Makes Brockmann and complete and utter hypocrite IMO. And accusing people of inciting violence?? She just wants to deflect genuine criticism from her book and pretend it’s all about her, and get people to feel sorry for her.
L: I don’t think the question here is so much about the restrictions and rules Ms. Brockmann wants to have on her own mb (IMHO it’s her board, her rules), but whether it is ethical to ban people from any board based on something a person posted somewhere else. It’s a slippery slope IMO: For one thing, different mbs and blogs have very different tones and therefore what you post on one might be way out of line on another.
As a bystander I find this whole hulabaloo very interesting: it’s such a case in point of the way internet works and the ethics involved. Many of the problems seem to stem from the fact that there are restrictions on communication with written text, where most of the tones we get in real life discussions are missing simply because we do not actually see or hear the person we are talking with. Hence the sometimes excessive use of emoticons etc. ;) And the Big-Mis’s, which seem to spread at the speed of ligh from one blog to another.. :lol:
My rule of thumb: always try to remember to read what you post before clicking “”send””. And never post anything when you’re pissed off, because once it’s out there in the wonderful world of the WWW, you won’t be able to “”undo”” it. For us ordinary posters it’s not such a big deal if we misbehave sometimes, but for authors, actors, politicians etc. things you post in the heat of the moment can really come back and bite you in the behind-her/him bigtime.
@L – I’m disturbed that you’re comfortable with the idea of someone deciding to limit your free speech. How can it be that you’re so blasé and easily able to dismiss what is, at root, a very serious topic? In the instance offered here, a poster has been banned from the SBBB, not for something she said on that board, but for something she’s rumored to have said somewhere else. With no proof offered, she’s been judged to have been endangering the author in some fashion. Do you understand the seriousness of what that is actually saying at it’s heart? Freedom of speech and the right to voice a dissenting opinion are things that an awful lot of people have fought long and hard to establish and take great exception to having curtailed. First amendment rights – freedom of speech, freedom of religion, freedom to assemble peaceably – it isn’t about someone paying to have their own message board, and it’s not, at root, something that should be so flippantly dismissed. I’m disturbed that an individual thinks it’s their right to control what’s said – about them, about their work, about any sort of belief system perhaps different then their own. I’m especially concerned when it runs contrary to the often expressed views of the author. It isn’t that the author in question is defending herself, it’s that she’s trying to control your right, and my right, to say what we think. What do you imagine the next step is, on that slippery slope? At it’s heart, it is a very serious issue and not one I think you should be so quick to dismiss. Are you comfortable if I take away your right to express your ideas? What if I had the ability to ban you from posting on AAR, because what you’re saying doesn’t agree with what I think? I think your opinion would change remarkably quickly if someone was telling you you couldn’t say what you think. Ms. Brockmann had a poster banned from her board for comments not made on her board, but rumored to have been made elsewhere. Rumored. I don’t see how you can’t view that as being an action of concern.
If people are so very concerned about free speech, by all means pay for your own message board and put your name across the top and allow whatever you want. Or not. Just like Brockmann has.
Marcella, it’s sad but true, lots of proof out there
Scary isn’t it? Especially from an author that preaches about freedoms constantly
I am amazed at all this. I haven’t read the book and/or know what the author said or meant to say etc. and frankly I cannot get excited about all of that.
But one thing really, really worries me… What happened to freedom of speech here? All I get from this is the message that if people don’t like your opinion, it gets erased. And not just on one board… no, various boards are monitored, links to ‘bad’ boards are being removed etc.
Sorry, but this is 2009. Aren’t we passed the time that people say “”I don’t like what you’re saying so off with the head””? Obviously not. Poor poor freedom of speech.
I do, therefore, have serious doubts about an author(!) who supports or even encourages something like that. I recently bought her first book in this series, but I’m not so sure I want to read it now.
Maybe I’m naive or too optimistic about human nature, but I just cannot believe things like this actually happen.
Full disclosure: I posted on the mega-thread. I haven’t read the book. I will NEVER read the book.
Unfortunately, I’m not suprised by the way this has deteriorated. Spoilers that were available on other sites on January 21st were a huge sign to me that Ms. Brockmann is not as accepting of differences as she would have us believe. The comments I’ve read today have only served to solidify that belief.
As a consumer, I’ve made the decision that I won’t buy another Brockmann book. I’ve written the publisher and will continue to do so until I receive a response.
Until then I will be spending my leisure time reading books by authors I can trust to deliver the book that was promised.
For those who have posted in the threads here and elsewhere, there’s really no need to defend the posts. They speak for themselves, while some were intended tongue-in-cheek, I don’t think any of them could be construed as threatening or homophobic.
[But I lost my secret decoder ring again, so I may be totally off-base ;-)]
Dearauthor had a column today, while not on the same subject at ALL, talks about the author/reader relationship.
http://dearauthor.com/wordpress/2009/02/10/the-journey-of-reading/#more-9895
An author Leslie Kelly stated this:
I guess you should therefore count me as someone who totally believes in the partnership. I will not change my writing based on reviews or reader reaction, but neither will I hand the reader rare roast beef when they asked for ham and expect them to blithely come along and keep quiet about it.
Again, their article is not talking about SB, but the author/reader relationship. I just quoted Leslie Kelly because she so distinctly summed up my expectations of an author in my relationship with her/him.
And I think that this is the expectation that Panthercrawl, and many of us had of her.
To Willow and Janet W–
You ask the question, “”If you don’t care, why do you keep posting in this discussion?””
I wish I had an answer for you. The closest I come to one is the one that L wrote when she said, “”It is kind of like watching a train wreck. And I too am having a hard time looking away.””
I guess I want to see to what depths this discussion will eventually reach. It just seems that all that can be said about it has been said. But really you’re correct when you say if I don’t like it, then don’t participate. Can I say “”the devil made me do it!””? And would you believe me anyway? LOL
L said: If a reader says “I’ll forgive her if she’ll just tell us…” then that reader has placed a personal stake in something that should not really be personal.
I dont know if that is what I meant if that was directed at me. But I did think that the author could justify her reasoning behind going a certain direction. (and she basically could have been nicer about it) I mean had she gone Decker/Sophia, this book is barely discussed. But she didnt and in turn broke all romance ‘rules’. So please, tell me what you were thinking. Why did you think this would be a good idea? Why did the last 4 books say this but now it says this?
I mean back when Jules and Robin got thier HEA she had this whole long post on her board about how ‘that happened’. Basically explaining how Robin would not shut up inside her head and was dying for his HEA. I honestly, expected more details on her writing process to get us there. And I honestly expected her to be able to clarify why she lead people a certain way and then pulled the rug out. I dont think it was explained well in the book. And some authors have more insight than they can put on paper. Isnt that the whole purpose of a Q&A. Or should it just be “”I loved your book, when is the next one coming out?”” Because she doenst tell you whats in the next book, so the answer be “”Thanks, I loved it too, stay tuned””. That would be the lamest Q&A ever. LOL.
I too am interested in your comments Tee — do you think it’s a “”boo-boo”” when people are accused of fomenting hateful speech across the internet? Suz has said that all of her moderators are operating with her full support. When we are told that our comments on book discussion boards are being monitored because we may be responsible for stirring up homophobic stalkers (my paraphrase). You don’t feel that a number of people who just discussed a book are being tarred with a very ugly brush? And one that I reject entirely for myself. I rarely purchase hardcover books, they just don’t fit on my keeper shelves, but I bought FON because I couldn’t wait to read Jules’s story.
So you think it is now our role to take the “”high road””, as you put it? Which I assume means shutting the heck :D up? As a former member of the Suz board, there was a favourite phrase that was often trotted out if someone ventured that perhaps a thread or a comment was somewhat problematic. It was, “”You don’t to read it, just don’t open it””. Pre-moderation of course. Surely you see the irony in telling people who are writing about books, authors, their experiences in Romancelandia, to stop “”finger wagging””.
@Laura Vivanco
“”It suddenly occurred to me that maybe it had something to do with Dr Sarah Frantz’s comment, made at Dear Author but also discussed on a thread here at AAR, that she had a “professional relationship” with Brockmann.””
Yeah, I’m pretty sure it was the DA discussion.
I find the whole kerfluffle interesting. I have posted on SB’s message board and I have seen the polarity on several issues. I’ve stopped posting there because only glowingly positive comments about DON are welcomed there. Anyone with a tepid response get’s reamed by the fangrrrls.
As much as I agree that Brockmann needs to take a deep breath and chill, I also think her past and present fans need to realize that Brockmann’s books stand or fall on their own merits. They should not need an outside explanation for us to understand or accept.
Expecting, requiring or desiring Brockmann to formulate and deliver an apology for different complaints for different posters on different message boards with differing viewpoints is not very reasonable.
If a reader says “”I’ll forgive her if she’ll just tell us…”” then that reader has placed a personal stake in something that should not really be personal. Keep personal expectations of Brockmann the person out of it and read the books offered by the Brockmann pen. Or don’t. They will work for you. Or won’t. Her latest offerings have fallen short for me.
I really wonder if this is just a tempest in a teapot or if the people at Ballantine are tearing their hair out. It is kind of like watching a train wreck. And I too am having a hard time looking away.
Tee,
If you don’t care, why do you keep posting in this discussion? We will talk about it as long as it continues to interest us. People are taking turns posting their opinions and experiences
I get it. Brockmann made a boo-boo, maybe many. Enough people have said this. I believe all of you. But why is she still being accused when we (and almost the entire world) know she’s done these things. She won’t apologize, and I don’t care if she does or doesn’t. She semi-closed her message board site; she had a right to do that. What good is all this extra negative stuff against her accomplishing anyway? I mean, how long do we whip the horse before he can’t get up anymore? At this point, don’t buy any more of her books, don’t visit her site, but stop already the finger-wagging. It’s turning even more mean. She chose her road; now take the high one.
The so-called Suzanne Brockmann train wreck has been months in the making. As a former, long-time poster at the Suzanne Brockmann Bulletin Board (SBBB), I was an eye witness to some of it. After years of polite and pleasant interactions, with some impressive collective efforts of good deeds, (bone marrow donor drives, support the troops efforts, to name just two) the SBBB had a shift in tone in the latter months of 2008. Despite the protests of a few posters, Ms. Brockmann decided that the BB was an excellent outlet for discussing politics, particularly her support of a particular candidate. That might have worked, except that a very small number of posters ran roughshod and were not reined in. In the process, many feelings were hurt, long time BB members left, others were verbally abused and some tried to negotiate peace. The overall tone of the BB changed dramatically in a few months. It was no longer a fun, friendly place. The day after the election, a discussion of Prop 8 in California was started. It was another stage of the train wreck. A few days later, Ms. Brockmann put the BB on a “”time-out”” without warning, saying that she would take a week to think about whether to re-open the BB or not. Posters who had gathered there for years had to scramble to maintain contact with long-time cyberfriends. Fortunately, there were enough email addresses in enough peoples’ address books that it was possible to reconvene on our own. A week later, Ms. Brockmann announced that the BB would re-open with moderators – moderators who were not initially identified by Ms. Brockmann. Her “”Welcome – or not”” re-opening message focused completely on gay issues; she made it sound like the implosion was due solely to a gay vs. anti-gay rights split. That Prop 8 thread was the last straw, but the camel’s back had been cracking under the strain of many issues for months. A number of former posters chose not to return to the SBBB and some struggle to straddle it and the “”refugee camp”” – for lack of a better term. I can only speak for myself, but the irony for me is that in many respects, my political views and values appear to align with Ms. Brockmann’s, yet I felt disrespected and alienated on her BB for a number of months before the shut-down. While I’m willing to concede that Ms. Brockmann might not have been painting all DON naysayers with the brush of homophobia at B&N (although that was my first knee jerk reaction to those sentences), there is a history of Ms. Brockmann boiling complicated events and issues down to pro-gay and anti-gay. One of the former SBBB posters, turned “refugee” – again for lack of a better term – followed that B&N response up with a very calm and thoughtful post on the SBBB about how disturbed she was at being categorized like this. Ms. Brockmann’s response was … interesting. During the B&N Q&A session last week, Ms. Brockmann chose to implement a log-in procedure simply to view her BB, not just to post on it. She said she’d been playing around with some settings and had discovered this feature; she then said it was like closing the curtains so others couldn’t look in at the party. It doesn’t take an MBA to recognize how such an action is a bad marketing and PR move during the week following a new book release and participation in a forum such as B&N. One would think an author would want to encourage, not discourage visitors at a time like this. She did disengage that log-in-to-lurk feature quite quickly; it sounded like her own BB regulars didn’t like it. There have been other actions which indicate a closing of the ranks. As mentioned by others, a few former posters have had their log-in access revoked. One that I know of received a harshly worded announcement last week which, in effect, said that she was being banished for having made posts which “actively work against her [the author’s] interests”” at various internet sites. The implication was that this reader’s posting activities away from the SBBB had been monitored and judgment had been passed. Sandy refers to a similar incident and message. I don’t know if we’re both talking about the same person or if this message has been sent to multiple people. Either way, it’s one thing to exercise control over what is stated on one’s own… Read more »
I think speculation about what may or may not be going on behind the scenes in Suzanne Brockmann’s world is largely irrelevant here – we’d only be guessing at best, and I think what should be the point here is what we’ve seen being said in public. I don’t know if Ms. Brockmann has received threats in private, and if she has that’s horrible and frightening for her, as well as being completely wrong, but it also isn’t something that involves me. I’m someone who has not liked the pairings in DON, and I resent the implication that because I don’t I’m part of some lunatic fringe or I’m homophobic. I’m neither. What I am is a highly insulted reader who is bewildered by the lack of graciousness, tact, dignity, or personal restraint exhibited by an author who, I feel, should have more class than she’s been shown to have. Whether she said “”some””, “”most””, or “”all”” is not the issue by any means, and I think is being thrown into the mix as a hair splitting device intended to distract the conversation away from the message being delivered by Ms. Brockmann in flashing neon lights, and that is quite clearly that anyone who has any sort of concern with or question about her writing is at fault. They have somehow failed in reading previous books, to grasp the brilliance of invisible foreshadowing, and any inability or lack of comprehension on the part of her idiot readers is not a reflection in any way on the brilliance, and, well, magic that is Ms. Brockmann.
Ms. Brockmann clearly soaks up praise like a sponge, as is evidenced by her responses to it in the B&N thread, but any dissension or remotely negative question no matter how politely phrased, is met with hostility, rudeness and insult, of a very personal nature to the questioner. Which leads me to believe that Ms. Brockmann has obviously failed to grasp the concept of a QUESTION and answer session.
I haven’t seen anything posted either on AAR or elsewhere, that has come across as any sort of threat against Ms. Brockmann. Unless you consider “”threats”” to not buy any of her books to be in the nature of a personal threat against her, in which case I’ve read many of those. For her to suggest otherwise seems to me like she is trying to bully her readers into shutting up, for fear of being labeled intolerant homophobic cyber stalkers with psychotic tendencies. If there’s more going on behind the scenes, then I think it should be left there, because that comment is completely out of line. A reader with a concern or a question is a reader looking for a reason, not looking to be insulted and belittled. It’s the ones who don’t bother to ask, but just quietly fade away that are lost to you as an author. Why would anyone intentional insult and dismiss any portion of their loyal readers? Why would an author want to take a purposeful step to anger and alienate readers who are looking to her to explain something that has them upset? Yes, it’s her book to write the way she wants, but as someone pointed out, if you want to stretch genres, you surely must be aware that there will be push back, and meeting it with some grace would go a long way towards garnering acceptance of it.
I also fail to see the homophobic connection to DON, a book where the controversy has all been connected to the coupling of the 4 main characters, with nary a discussion in place concerning her one gay couple who play a minor and insignificant role in this book. Perhaps Ms. Brockmann’s own obsession with the subject has colored her ability to see clearly what is being said to her, and that is, quite simply, that a great many readers are upset. It doesn’t really matter why, they should not be treated to the contempt they’ve been treated to by this author. For someone who pushes acceptance, she doesn’t show much of it. I guess this would be a case of do what I say, not what I do.
Panthercrawl, I just checked and Mike-the-Seal falls out of the dedications between Out of Control and Into the Fire which is back in 2002. Wow. So when I said I posted there for aeons, I meant it.
I wasn’t in the least suggesting that Suz was currently scared by threats made back then – I’m seemingly failing to communicate with clarity at the moment – what I meant was that because that incident happened, I can believe that it could happen again (with different people involved). Does that make sense?
(FWIW, and it’s not worth much, Mike-the-Seal advised Suz on many of the TDD books, and some of the TS books, and posted on the MB at that time. Some posters even met him, and were friends with the family. Turned out he wasn’t a Seal, which led to a bit of a parting of the ways on the Board, as some people refused to believe that he’d been lying. Very, very ancient history.)
Leigh: I understand you know the poster in question, and are sure she was unjustly banned from the Board. I do understand that. But, putting yourself in my shoes, all I know is that someone -unnamed – has been banned from the MB for a set of posts I didn’t read.
I don’t know what you want me to say to that. I hear what you say, but without knowing any of the details, I can’t know what I think about the moderator’s decision.
It has come to our attention that you have posted on other internet sites items that could be construed to be not only inflammatory and/or derogatory to the author but actively working against her interests. In these modern times, such relentless personal attacks have been known to incite violence, and, in the opinion of the board owner’s advisors, can and will no longer be taken lightly. This is a fan site. In light of those posts your access has been removed from the Suzanne Brockmann Message Board.
We didn’t make up this message. And I didn’t receive it. I have no desire to post on her board. It seems very hypocritical of me to do so, since I was very vocal in my disappointment. This post was received by someone who posted about 10 posts here.
I easily understand what you are saying that we have no way of knowing what type of messages SB received personally. However, I don’t think that she stated that in her post. She referenced posters to message boards.
I wasn’t on her boards long enough to be involved in any of her brouhahas.
I did see personally other individuals running roughshod over others and left. I believe that she did put people in moderator positions to prevent this from happening. But from what I gather, the moderators or if you want to call them advisers are the ones that were tracking down posts on other web pages.
On SB page she has this on her home page:Visit my bulletin board. Post your comments! Start discussions! Ask questions! And then in a post from SB:I also think that the vast majority (again to quote this wise moderator) of my readers are “”tolerant, fun and supportive of each other.””
Tracking down posts from other boards doesn’t seem very tolerant. Or trying to close the board so that only registered board members can see the posts doesn’t seem very tolerant.
I always try to put myself in other people’s shoes. And yes, as a author I know I would be upset if people were determine to judge a book before reading it. But then again, I would have explained long before the book came out what was going on.I wasn’t on her board during the Mary Lou & Sam period or comments about Jules but since she has pushed the envelope so many times before, I would think that she would have had a better idea of how to manage damage control.
And I would have addressed disappointed readers’ concerns with a lot more respect than SB did at Barnes and Noble.
The funny thing is Mmca I dont know whats happening (or a lot of the undercurrent). She or her board may think I’m some undercover ‘out to get Brockmann because she has a gay son’. And the ironic thing is, I agree with her politics (the ones I know) about 1000%. My best friend is gay. He lives in California. Prop 8 affected him.
I didnt like what she tried to do with DON. She kept the couples a secret. Did she think nobody would want to know who they were? Did she think nobody would go back and reread looking for clues? We did. And we discussed it – in great detail. And then we would get another spoiler and discuss that in great detail. It just went on and on. We discussed lack of foreshadowing (come on who can tell me they thought Decker and Tracy would have HEA?), we discussed misleading polls on her website, we discussed reader expectations and author trust. Can I tell you what happened on AAR 10 years ago? No sorry. But if she is still feeling threatened by whoever posted about Mike the Seal (dont know who that is) she has issues. She was talking about AAR (because her board does – yes I browse there too but there is rarely anything good on it). And if people on her board (who post all day) can criticise us for posting all day all I have to say is ‘pot, your kettle is calling’
Willow, my point was that I didn’t read the comment as labelling everyone who didn’t like DoN that way.
Of course I agree with you that we should stick to the facts, but I can’t see how you know that no-one made personal attacks on Brockmann: surely the most you can know is that no-one made such attacks on the boards you frequent.
And, of course I don’t think critiquing books means you have an axe to grind. I said ‘I do think there have been posters out there with an axe to grind.’ And that’s my truthful opinion: there are some odd people out there, and I’ve seen them come off the MB with a grievance and post things I’ve thought beyond the pale, even here on the old AAR boards.
Now, you’re free to think I’m making that up: the old AAR boards are gone, and the Brockmann board never archived, but there are definitely posters I think of as the lunatic fringe.
(And while it’s ancient history, back in Mike-the-Seal’s time there were MB members who left having received threats, so I’m open to the suggestion that there are people bananas enough to do that.)
I am still a member of Brockmann’s Board, but not in any very active way. If the moderators are banning people because they critisise DoN, no, I wouldn’t support that at all.
On the other hand, you have to understand I posted there for a long time, and while you may know this is happening, I would need to see it for myself to be convinced, because it seems so unlike the MB I knew.
Panthercrawl, you wrote:
“”Because honestly I would have liked for her to have come out without being pissed off and said “Listen I tried to go one way. I’m sorry if you felt mislead. I was trying something new. No, you are not an idiot for thinking So/Deck was a reality (despite what the people on my board said). I wrote it that way and intended for you to buy it that way, otherwise the surprise wouldnt have worked” In the end, that probably would have worked for me. (I also have questions about why it took 5 years for this to happen but I wont go into that). Instead we were given, lots of people did like it and if you didnt you must not like Jules either (wink, wink, you’re a homophobe)””
I too would have been satisfied with the answer above, that’s all I and others were looking for, real answers. Instead we got sarcasm, intimidation and were accused of cyberstalking/threatening/being a homophobe.
I have to wonder what the PR department at her publisher thinks of all this hoopla. On one hand yes, any publicity is good publicity. But on the other hand Suzanne Brockmann is a brand and her brand has been tarnished. Even some of her supporters are saying she has handled this all wrong and this controversy has spread to all corners of romanceland (of course since Suz isolates herself and doesn’t read any of these sites it’s easy for her to label all of us as being part of a very small minority, with no power or voice, a part of a lunatic fringe)
But a year from now people aren’t going to remember what I wrote, or what Leigh wrote but they will remember the things Brockmann has said, and her reputation is without a doubt taking a serious beating.
MMcA, with all due respect it makes no sense for her to try and label all those who are dissatisfied with DON as either having an axe to grind, don’t like Jules, Prop 8 supporters, homophobes or associate them with her board meltdown. And that is exactly what she has done.
I was a member of her board as well, although I no longer wish to go there after Brockmann has been show to be so highly intolerant of anyone but the most sycophantic fan girl. I didn’t get involved in the political discussions, I’m a liberal and very supportive of gay rights, and one of my good friends is gay. So can you see how highly offensive I find it for her to try and portray me as a homophobe? And that is exactly what she was doing, just because she used the word ‘some’ it doesn’t limit her inflammatory accusations.
I think this discussions needs to stick to the facts. The facts are that all the discussions on all the boards centered around DON, the characters, the plot and the marketing. No one made personal attacks against Brockmann or threatened her safety and I believe it is slanderous of her to say so. She owes an apology to all posters and the gay and lesbian community for her malicious accusations.
Since when is critiquing a book mean you have an axe to grind? If that’s how you feel why not start advocating the shutdown of all these book centered boards? And as a current member of her board MMcA do you support Brockmann and her moderators as they visit other sites and ban any poster who is critical of DON?
I just don’t read it that way, Sandy. I take it that she’s dismissing the lunatic fringe as the lunatic fringe.
I posted on her MB for aeons, so I’ve a lot of loyalty to the MB, and may well not be objective – but I do think there have been posters out there with an axe to grind.
The ‘probably don’t like Jules either’ accusation is something different, but I think there is a history behind it.
Very recently there was real unpleasantness on the MB about Prop 8.
Now a) I’m not American, so my understanding of Prop 8 is limited, and b) I had virtually left the MB at that point – was back to read the political discussion about the US election – so I’m not up on the details.
Anway, from what I saw, the row was about whether expressing happiness that Prop 8 had passed was homophobic and unacceptable, or part of normal political discussion on the board. This, to an extent, led into a discussion of freedom of religion – so a very flammable mix. People were banned, some core posters left, and the MB was shut down for a time. In the interim, regular posters founded their own board.
Now, seems possible to me that what Suz is suggesting is that a small number of posters are still angry about the Prop 8 row, and the subsequent dissolution of the MB in that incarnation, and are therefore venting about DoN. That is she possibly thinks that an amount of the on-line criticism for DoN is backlash from that event.
Whether that’s true, I’ve honestly no idea: I can’t imagine anybody but former MB regulars would know.
And, yes, seems impolitic to say it on the B&N thread: that’s author promotion, and you’d think it would be sensible to ‘smile and wave, boys, smile and wave’.
Thanks for posting this discussion Sandy. I’m in the ‘I can’t believe she just said that!’ camp regarding Brockmann’s statements on B&N. Her answers were smug, condescending and downright rude. Perhaps she feels she’s so successful she no longer needs to be nice or polite???
Leigh, you are not a cyberstalker by any stretch of the imagination. You, like a lot of of us on this site, are being vocal about our criticisms and there is nothing wrong with that. What is wrong is Brockmann’s attempt to shut us up by claiming we are threatening her safety and accusing all of us of homophobia.
I think she needs to apologize not only to all of us for her false and slanderous claims but to the Gay and Lesbian community as a whole. They face injustice and prejudice everyday and Brockmann diminishes their struggle by attempting to deflect criticism off her book and claim it’s really about her and the 2 gay characters who sometimes appear on her books.
Suzanne Brockmann should be ashamed of herself. When people like her make such false and outrageous claims it makes it all that much harder for the gay community to fight the true crimes and injustices they face.
Sandy, Sandy, Sandy. Everytime I’m out, they pull me back in!
Hi all. I’m panthercrawl and a DON Thread addict. I’ve been post free for 5 days now.
Seriously folks. Did we spend too much time posting about a book? Yes. But was the discussion “”I’m pissed”” “”Me too””. No. There was so much more than that. And trufully outside of being outraged by her website marketing of the couple (listed as a secondary plotline with all other couples listed getting thier eventual HEA), I’m pretty sure all posts were related to characters and our opinions of them.(see library’s post for a synopsis) SB has stated (NOW) she always intended to do this couple. So she obviously mislead So/Deck fans from the get go. I guess I was just hoping in the end she would have come clean and been a tad nicer about hooking me in for all those books.
Now I know from her post on her board from a while ago that some stuff went down regarding politics and prop 8. I have posted on her board 2 times (about books) in all these years and I only go there at book release time (its kind of a boring board. happy birthdays and such). I loved Jules and Robin (which for those of you who dont know was a gay couple a few books ago, not this one). So I think unfortunately a couple of things happened. A) she wanted to surprise her readers by leading them one way and giving them something else (well, surprise!) and B) this personal thing happened on her board. So now any questions related to A seemed to be answered with B. Kind of a ‘oh you didnt like the book, well I know who you are dont I?’
And I’m bummed she cant separate the two. Because honestly I would have liked for her to have come out without being pissed off and said “”Listen I tried to go one way. I’m sorry if you felt mislead. I was trying something new. No, you are not an idiot for thinking So/Deck was a reality (despite what the people on my board said). I wrote it that way and intended for you to buy it that way, otherwise the surprise wouldnt have worked”” In the end, that probably would have worked for me. (I also have questions about why it took 5 years for this to happen but I wont go into that). Instead we were given, lots of people did like it and if you didnt you must not like Jules either (wink, wink, you’re a homophobe). I was so shocked by that comment, that I decided I was done. (Thanks Sandy).
To my friends in that crazy DON thread, it was a pleasure. I laughed a lot. I found some great reads and I know more about me as a reader and the character Dave than I ever wanted to. To Sandy and the other AAR members, thank you for being our host and dealing with our thread at the top for 2 months. I dont read a lot of new releases so I’ve never really participated before this but I think I’ve broken out of my shell.
BTW, in the end, there were parts of the book that I liked a lot. (and yes, some I hated but I try to block them out) Overall, I think I would give it a C+/B-. (As a standalone – never read the characters before – I would have given it an A-)